Betrayed Partner

What are we talking about? Betrayal Trauma and Sex addiction are two terms that are directly connected, also the connection is not always as clearly seen as it should be. I am working for some years with betrayers, betrayed partners and the traumatic impact that the behavior of the betrayer has done to the relationship. […]

Welcome back to the last part of the three posts about the different types of trauma, caused by betrayal trauma. In the first part of those three posts I have introduced you to the concept of the 22 rooms. Each of those rooms holds different trauma shaping induced by the betrayal. They are placed in […]

In the first part I have given you an introduction to the house and how the 22 trauma rooms are divided within the different floors. And we also looked into the first five rooms that form part of the Covert phase. In this blog we will go upstairs and look into the rooms of the exposure […]

After sitting with betrayers and betrayed partners in the same room for almost 20 years and listening to their stories, their pain and their trauma, Dr. Minwalla came up with 22 different types of trauma the betrayed partner is exposed to throughout the time of the betrayal, discovery, disclosure and recovery. After I have talked […]

To answer this question, we have to dive into understanding on how our nervous system works in terms of connection, safety and relationship. Let´s go back to a time when we human beings have been living in the prairie as nomads. We are walking and trying to find something to eat. And without nowhere a […]

When you have been exposed to betrayal in your intimate relationship you will start the difficult journey of finding help, professional help. You will start to search the internet and you will find councilors, coaches and therapists that reclaim that they can help you with the situation you are in.   Some challenges you are […]