“When there is no hope within you, let me hold the hope for you.”

Infidelity and sexual betrayal is the most devastating event that can happen in a marriage or partnership. It turns your world upside down and in general people don’t know where to go to find help. Questions like “What will people think of me if I want to stay?” or “Will I ever heal from all the lies, deceptions, manipulations and gaslighting?”. And on the betrayer´s part those are more like “How could I have done this to my wife and to my family?” or “What was I thinking, who am I?”.

Gundolf Strehl is a psychologist with 20+ years of experience working with couples and individuals

“When we get new information we are learning and we can change things.” – Virginia Satir

As a psychologist with 20 years in practice, and having trained with Dr. Omar Minwalla, I have extensive experience in the arena of “Deceptive Sexuality” and “Betrayal Trauma”. I have worked with hundreds of couples and individuals and I understand the profound impact infidelity can have on your lives. I navigated them through the complexities of dealing and healing this massive bomb that dropped in their lives. Whether it be staying in the marriage or not, this situation requires healing for the three parts; both partners and their relationship. My focus is on healing the trauma for all three parts. I know it requires commitment, hard work, vulnerability and breaking down long felt beliefs. But it can be done. 

Throughout the years I have seen miracles happen in my practice and that is why I can hold hope when you have no more, and why I am so passionate about what I do. I can help you in the healing process. Rather than signing up blindly with me, I like to offer my clients to meet with me for a complimentary 15-minute video call. If you are interested in that click on the button and you can send me a message so that we can set up an appointment or questions you might have.

Healing the Betrayer

If you have caused betrayal trauma, I’m here to support you in becoming a better man. My focus is on guiding you through understanding the impact of your actions, offering pathways to accountability, and helping you grow into a more compassionate, responsible and empathetic man.

Healing the Betrayed Partner

If you have experienced and been impacted by betrayal trauma, I’m here to support your journey towards healing. My commitment is to provide a nurturing space where you can understand your experiences, find comfort, and grow stronger on your path to recovery.

Healing the Relationship

If your relationship has been impacted by deceptive sexuality and betrayal trauma, I’m here to guide you both through the healing process. My approach focuses on fostering understanding of the impact of betrayal trauma, communicating, accountability, rebuilding trust, and helping you navigate the path to a safe and honest relationship.

Get in touch with me!