Trauma of the betrayer

What are we talking about? Betrayal Trauma and Sex addiction are two terms that are directly connected, also the connection is not always as clearly seen as it should be. I am working for some years with betrayers, betrayed partners and the traumatic impact that the behavior of the betrayer has done to the relationship. […]

In the first three articles about the personal iceberg we have taken first a closer look at the deepest levels of the iceberg, namely the complex trauma shaping (Part 1) in terms of the attachment, the gender, the sexuality and the body construction (Part 2). Then we took a look at how the complex trauma […]

In the first two posts about the personal iceberg (Part 1) (Part 2) we have taken a closer look at the deepest levels of the iceberg, namely the complex trauma shaping in terms of the attachment, the gender, the sexuality and the body construction. Now we are ready to start the next excursion to take […]

The metaphor of the iceberg is often used in psychology as it helps to demonstrate the things that are happening invisible for the eye but that have a driving force on our behavior and emotional state. As with the iceberg there are only 20% of its volume visible on the surface, and the rest of […]

When you have been exposed to betrayal in your intimate relationship you will start the difficult journey of finding help, professional help. You will start to search the internet and you will find councilors, coaches and therapists that reclaim that they can help you with the situation you are in.   Some challenges you are […]